Some men are selfish” Waje reacts as a number of Nigerian men say they’ll never allow their mothers remarry if their fathers die
There’s been an argument on Twitter about widows remarrying, after a number of men said they will raise hell if their mothers try to remarry and Waje has reacted to the argument.
A number of men stated that their fathers are allowed to remarry but they will not allow their mothers remarry if their fathers die.
It led to a debate and one man disagreed. He stated that he’s in search of a companion for his mother.
Responding to a particular tweet from a man who vehemently opposed his mother remarrying, singer Waje stated that some men are selfish. She said that a man is adviced to remarry if his wife dies. However, if a husband dies, the wife will not be allowed to find happiness. She added that adulthood has taught her to appreciate her mother better. She further stated that children should want their parents’ happiness.
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After the death of her husband, Noellia Mukankuranga grappled with overwhelming distress of never again seeing the man she shared her life with for over 20 years.
After the death of her husband, Noellia Mukankuranga grappled with overwhelming distress of never again seeing the man she shared her life with for over 20 years.
Although years have passed, the pain is still fresh in her heart. Mukankuranga cannot hold back tears as she narrates her heart wrenching experience.
“Death leaves pain no one can heal. I lost my husband three years ago in a car accident and since then, life has never been the same for us.
He left me with four children who miss him. I also miss him terribly. He was what I thought was the end of my search for happiness; he was a hard working father and an amazing husband,” Mukankuranga narrates.
The thought of moving on and remarrying keeps crossing her mind, but she believes she can never find someone like her deceased husband.
For some women, the grief of losing a husband is so strong that the thought of ever finding another partner feels like betrayal.
“I don’t think I can ever fall in love with another man, the only thing I’m focused on is giving my children a happy life and basically keeping my husband’s legacy. Life as a widow is tough but I am a strong woman and I keep fighting the odds that life throws my way,” she says.
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