See The 6 Common Lies Men Tell Women In Relationship

Honesty is the bedrock to any successful and healthy relationship. It’s indisputably that we all tell “white lies” in relationship. We say we are fine,when we’re not. But in an intimate relationship, honesty includes – allowing your partner to know who you are and your honest intentions towards them.

Nobody wants to be with a liar. Even if your partner doesn’t lie about big things, the smallest lies can still affect your relationship in a big way. Lying destroys trust. If your partner can’t be honest about a few key issues, there is a high tendency your relationship may have some difficulties.

Both men and women tell lies. But the purpose of this write up is to focus on the men. Some men would say “anything” to get what they want. But you have to be willing to believe “anything” to give it to them. Today lam sharing light on the 6 Most common lies men tell women.

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1. I Will Wait Till You Are Ready

When a man says that he’s willing to wait until you’re ready. It doesn’t necessarily mean he’s willing to “wait”. Here is where the game changes. Now to be fair, some men will respect that statement and not be intimate with anyone else during this “waiting period” . Infact some men are the initiator of such statements. However, those ain’t the ones l’m referring to here. The ones l’m referring will tell you what you want to hear and not what you really need to know.They will agreed to wait for you still you are ready but deep inside they know they are lying to you. They would wait still you are ready but the “waiting” is tied directly to you and only you. Infact, he’s agreed to not push the issue with you, thus earning brownie points for appearing not be only after one thing. But on the long run wrong he is just lying to you, he is getting what you are depriving him of, from another woman.

2.Its Not About Sex

This is the most common lies men tell women from the onset of a relationship. “I don’t mind taking things slow”. For men being sexually compatible is one of the most important factor when it comes to choosing a woman they want to spend the rest of their lives with. If a man feels the need to lie about anything related to sex to his woman. They are going to be unsatisfied and some might even start looking elsewhere to get their needs met. So don’t be fooled when a man tells you it’s not about sex. Clarify what he meant and hold him to it.

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3. I Want The Relationship Private.

True love remains consistent regardless of the situation or environment. If he truly loves you, his actions should show it whether you are in private or public. Privacy is very essential in a relationship. When I speak of privacy, l’m speaking of keeping your private life off the public not every detail of your life with your partner need to be broadcast. Keeping it private shouldn’t be mistaken for keeping it a secret. Although your relationship should be private but people around you should know about the relationship. Especially your close families and close friends. Some men will say “I don’t believe in label”. Because there are hiddig something or they are having a dubious intention towards you.

4.I’m Leaving Her For You

This statement is mostly said by married men. But the question you should ask yourself as a lady dating a married man is :If he is cheating with you, what is going to stop him from cheating on you? Never be someone second choice. It will safe you from emotional stress and unnecessary heartbreak. Don’t fall for a lie of “I will leave her for you”.

5. I’ve Been Busy

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. When he starts making excuses of” I’ve been busy”. Because he isn’t giving you the attention you are getting from him before. It is either he is right or he is lying to you. The most important impression a man can make on you is not the first impression, but rather a lasting impression that only comes from consistency over time. When he starts making excuses he probably giving attention to another woman.

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6. I Love You

Love is probably one of the most powerful and misused word in our vocabulary. Some men use the words “I love you” into manipulating women, so as to lure them in getting whatever they want from them. When a man says “I love you” and his actions don’t match up with his words. If he continues lying to you, cheating on you. Don’t be with a man that treats you with disrespect even if you love him. Remember you always have to love yourself first.

Some men believe some women believe in lies rather than the truth. On the other hand some women believe all men are liars. No! I disagree with that. All men are not liars we still have honest men out there. All you need do as a woman is to be true to yourself also. You can’t attract what you don’t have. Above all, trust your intuition, it will tell you what you need to hear and not necessarily what you want to hear.