Blue Film: Five Ways It Is Killing You, Slowly

Blue Films: Five Ways It Is Killing You, Slowly

by NwanyiAbia
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Have your bedroom skills gotten sloppy and you feel the need to update your skills by watching porn? Or you are bored, horny and the easiest escape route for want of other choices is to do blue films? Have you been fantasizing about your partner in order to relieve yourself, so you decide to watch a blue film to help you create the image? Or you are simply watching it for fun?
But is porn-watching entirely just porn and safe for you? Before we dive into the risky areas of watching porn, let’s query why is it even called Blue film?

There are many accounts as to why it is called a blue film but the most interesting one is from Murray Trupel.
Film equipment (specifically the cameras) in the 1920s and 30′s was owned by the studios. If you wanted to make an “off the books” film you had to use their equipment.

At the doors were two lights Red and Blue, If the Red light was on it meant a camera was rolling, basically a do not disturb sign. On the other hand, if the Blue light was on then it was OK to enter.

But adult films were shot at night, to notify which type of production was ongoing, the studio management twisted it to mean that when the Blue light was on after-hours it really meant that a camera was rolling the same meaning as the Red light during the day. Hence films produced this way were referred to as Blue films.

Five ways Blue Films can hurt you

Abandoning your partner
The guilt and mistrust about pornography can tear your marriage apart. Turning to pornography may cause your spouse to relegated to the background of your mind whenever you have sexual needs, pushing you from the real relationship because of the instant gratification you receive from make-believe. Since you are satisfied, you do not make an effort to get down with your partner.
You are stuck up on your pornography and your relationship would suffer the losers’ bouts.
This can further lead to insecurity of a partner. When your husband/wife views porn, you may feel disrespected. Some spouses start feeling insecure that they are not good enough for their mates. This can create a wedge in the relationship. Not everyone understands that porn might be an escape and not reality, some people feel a type of way when their partner watches porn, they feel jealous and vengeful.
Porn can cause erectile dysfunction
This one is specifically for guys. Virility is important for almost every guy I know. The rise in porn-induced erectile dysfunction is something to be alarmed about. Frequently watching porn can lead to erections which can increasingly only be induced by hardcore pornography. That’s not healthy. Porn consumption then becomes a sort of psychological conditioning which creates performance anxiety. Yikes.
Addiction
Porn addiction like every other addiction is disastrous. People suffering from porn addiction can lose large periods of time to viewing porn, wasting most of the day without accomplishing anything. You may have noticed that someone you know addicted to porn is lethargic and not accomplished. They might seem like they don’t care or are very uninterested in anything else.
When someone becomes addicted to porn, they actually lose interest in real sex. Not only that, they actually find their partners less attractive when compared to the people seen in porn.
Mechanical sex
Pornography could make it difficult for one of the partners to view sex as a loving form of communication. From pornography’s point of view, there is no room for communication, just a few conversations and sex is down, this is not reality at all.
As a result, pornography can decrease sexual satisfaction within your marriage.
Unrealistic expectations of sex and bodies
Fantasies about perfectly shaped porn stars are a result of blue films, but these are just what they are – fantasies. Everybody is nicely crafted in their own unique way, but porn breaks the image of hot girls and guys to be a certain way, slim, slender, big breasts and perfectly shaped ass, macho for the men, and unrealistic huge penises.
They create an unrealistic expectation of how long sex should last and orgasms like squirting which isn’t a characteristic of everyone can become the desire of someone addicted to porn thereby forcing them to suffer the emotional pangs of failures.
On this internet, you are two clicks away from gospel preachers barking the dangers of porn, and this is not what we did above because we are aware that there are two sides to everything, even porn, and it would be poor writing to just talk about the adverse sides.
For one, unlike physical sex, watching porn spreads no diseases, leads to zero pregnancies, and doesn’t open you to blackmail like vicious judgments and slut-shaming. Porn is also inexpensive as it eliminates expensive dates and hotel bills that precede you getting laid.
Blue films can even be used as a sex aid for IRL sex, as many couples can attest.
Lastly, watching porn (and masturbating) keeps you from screwing the wrong person.
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