Popular Nigerian comedian, Bovi Ugboma, has ignited a heated online debate following his remarks about his parenting approach. In a recent episode of the **Honest Bunch Podcast** that aired on Monday, Bovi revealed his stance against corporal punishment, even in cases of misbehavior. His comments, however, have drawn both criticism and support across social media platforms.
During the podcast, Bovi shared a personal anecdote about his son, who had broken three televisions out of frustration. Rather than resorting to physical punishment, the comedian emphasized the importance of understanding and addressing underlying issues.
*”I don’t believe in beating children, even when they misbehave,”* Bovi explained, adding that his parenting approach focuses on empathy and communication.
Bovi’s statements sparked a flurry of reactions on **X (formerly Twitter)**, with many Nigerians expressing their views.
Chinaza Victoria, tweeting as #love_Victoria17, questioned how such behavior might manifest in public settings, particularly in schools.
*”Imagine being a teacher with a student like Bovi’s son, who thinks it’s acceptable to act rashly out of anger. These attitudes make teachers frustrated, and parents often come to fight,”* she wrote.
Mazi Nathan (#rukky_nate) argued that failing to discipline children can lead to negative outcomes.
*”Allowing a child to throw things and break TVs without consequence is harmful. Discipline is crucial for their development,”* he said.
Another user, #softhardguy, aligned with Bovi’s anti-corporal punishment stance but stressed the importance of teaching children about accountability.
*”Kids need to learn cause and effect. Instead of beating, parents should use such moments to build their character. If unchecked, such behavior could spill over into society,”* he noted.
In defense of Bovi, Mfon Abia (#PrettyMfon) suggested that the child’s actions might stem from communication challenges, potentially linked to special needs.
*”Children with special needs often exhibit temper tantrums and meltdowns. Hitting them isn’t the answer—behavioral therapy is the best approach,”* she explained.
Following the intense reactions, Bovi addressed critics on X.com on Tuesday.
*”I’ve triggered angry people because of the phrase I used, ‘For the fun of it.’ Make una no vex,”* he wrote, acknowledging the uproar.
He went on to clarify his perspective:
*”My father never physically beat me, and I turned out almost okay. You don’t have to agree with me. If beating your kids works for you, enjoy.”*
Bovi also revealed that his son had a speech impediment and communication challenges, which were only beginning to improve.
*”My child’s behavior was tied to his speech and communication difficulties. Empathy was the best way to address it,”* he stated.
Bovi’s remarks have reignited discussions about discipline, child development, and the role of empathy in parenting. While some advocate for stricter measures, others emphasize understanding and alternative methods to correct behavior.
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