Solomon Buchi, a Nigerian public speaker and life coach, has counseled men who aren’t financially secure to still get married.
This was announced by the renowned life coach in a tweet on Tuesday.
He claimed that a spouse who recognizes the possibility of losing everything is more important in a marriage than money.
“My kid sister married my friend, 25, at the age of 23,” wrote Buchi. He was employed by Exxonmobil and doing incredibly well for himself. He lost his job as a result of COVID six months after getting married. I am aware that many guys desire a solid financial foundation before marriage, but that is not what you require.
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“What you need is a partner that understands the reality that you can lose everything, and they need to be there for you. Marriage thrives on understanding and contentment — come what may, both of you will hold it together. That’s the real control and security you can have.”
He continued, “Men, money shouldn’t stop you from getting married. It shouldn’t. I understand the societal pressure, but there’s no guarantee that all the riches you want to build can’t fly away. Life happens, and you need a woman who will embrace you when life happens.
“I bet that if my in-law foresaw that he’d have lost his job 6 months into marriage, he most likely wouldn’t have gotten married, till last year that he was called back. Don’t let the aspiration to have money stacked up somewhere stop you from getting married.”
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