Sex and relationships keep evolving to suit modern needs and satisfaction. At one point in our lives, the simple act of putting a penis in a vagina was enough to achieve sexual satisfaction. Recently, a lot more has been put on the menu for variety sake and lots of people are placing the order and enjoying themselves.
Let us look at the five weird additions to sex and relationship menu people are embracing.
Rimming
Rimming is a newbie in the sex world. Most people (male and female) will cringe at the thought of rimming, it is actually cringe worthy, but it is still one of the most pleasurable things in the world. It is said that 9 out of 10 men achieve their most memorable orgasm from rimming.
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Rimming, also known as analingus, is the act of licking, sucking, kissing or pleasuring the anus. This can involve any other pleasurable act that involves oral-to-anal contact.
Many would find it distasteful to even put their finger in the anus let alone their tongue. It is said that men have their G-spot at their anus, whether this is true or not, rimming shows that men have something in their anus that stimulates them so much that whenever the tongue is put there, it drives them gaga. Would you want to try?
Cunnilingus (Giving head)
Cunnilingus is oral sex which involves someone using their mouth to stimulate a woman’s genitals. Cunnilingus which is often referred to as “Giving head” is pleasurable for most women, it gets them in the mood and aids faster orgasm.
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However pleasurable, a lot of women would rather not be given head. For the men, most men find it uncomfortable putting their mouth in a woman’s vagina. Most men would rather not, mostly because of their imagination of what goes on in that part of the body.
Sending nudes
Sending nudes is a means of sustaining a long-distance relationship, it can also be a teaser, a reminder or anything else you and your partner consider nudes do for you.
It creates wanting, pleasure and sometimes satisfaction, nonetheless, most people find sending nudes awkward, uncomfortable, suspicious and distrust. Worry that it might leak constitutes the reason most are weary of nudes.
Open relationships, threesome, polyamory
Open relationships are becoming a thing recently. Monogamy seems to be unattainable so many have opted for more consensual options.
Open relationships or marriage involves a relationship in which both partners agree that each may have sexual relations with other people. Sometimes the spouse knows the external consort, other times they prefer to not know.
Threesomes are a group of three people engaged in the same activity, in this context, a sexual activity where all three of them have sex with one another in turns at the same time.
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This is a pleasurable experience, but most find it disgusting and feel it is unnatural for too many bodies to collude. Others say there will always be preference which will make the third person uncomfortable.
Polyamory is the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the informed consent of all partners involved.
It is not the same as throuple which is three people being in a relationship.
Polyamory is one person in two or more relationships, and all partners are aware that he/she has other partners and consent to it. They all are not sexually involved simultaneously so it is not a threesome or a throuple, they individually date the same person.
Are you open to any of this kind of option? Are you in love or attracted to more than one person, polyamory allows you date both of them and they both know that you are dating them both.
Squirting
Squirting and female orgasm has become a thing in recent times. Squirting refers to fluid expelled from the vagina during orgasm. This looks and feels like urine. While some researchers say it is not, others say it is absolutely urine.
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It shows a lady has climaxed and makes most men feel proud that they are capable of making a woman achieve the zenith of orgasm.
However glorious, there is still some awkwardness to squirting. To some women, it is embarrassing because they think it to be peeing in the middle of sex, to some men, it is simply pee and disgusting. This makes a lot of women not open to squirting.
Which of these have you tried or willing to try?
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