Ten Ways To Woo An Igbo Girl

The Igbos produce some of the most intelligent and beautiful women in the world. Igbo girls have other peculiarities which impact their relationships in no small way. Hitting on a woman is easy, but successfully wooing a woman is a more complex task to carry out. More so, if she is an Igbo girl.

If you have an Igbo girl on your romantic radar, it is important you make her know that you are trying to woo her. These tips will help you to get your intentions straight to her without being disrespectful, too forward, and opening yourself up for failure.

1. Consistency

This is a very important factor to put in check, an Igbo girl is a very sensitive and smart girl who is keen enough and takes cognizance of almost everything happening around her even without the notice of the second party.

This is like a key tip for you the guy working towards that lane, there is a need for you to put your behavior, generally to check because any little thing can be a turn-off for her. For instance, If you are a guy that does drugs (of any kind) and you’ve got a crush on an Igbo girl, first thing first is take your time to study her, her likes and dislikes too, then evaluate yourself to endure you are suitable enough to avoid embarrassment and disappointment at the end. 

Note that for most Igbo girls, a few things can be a turn-off. And once they say no, they could be a second chance but that can only be when an adjustment has been made on yourself as the man. 

2. Be presentable

With the rate of choice of men for women from the taste of time, it is no more the same right now for an average Igbo girl. They are times when women pick their choice of men with high concentration to the physique of such men, an Igbo girl was once involved in that thread too but that’s is no more in vogue.

Being presentable in it’s literal meaning connotes that you must be good looking literally, ensure that you are properly dressed anytime, every time because that too, has a message to pass across to the girl. An Igbo girl is stereotyped as an acute lover of money.

This common assertion is not wholly justified but here is the bitter truth, an Igbo girl loves to be given good threats and showered with love too, so you must be up to doing, be hardworking in order to impress her and win her intimacy.

3. Be spontaneous in a smart way

With an Igbo girl, you have to be intentional, opening up to her about your intentions will also, in turn, give you a glimpse of what she too holds for you,  you don’t waste her time beating around the bush, else she might lose interest and drifts away that’s body present, absent-minded. You’re trying to strike a balance between open and mysterious. It sounds difficult, but it can be done.

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Women want to date men that are open, but quickly lose interest in men that are completely open books. Being open is good but apply caution, do not open up to her about everything, there are things she should not know at the start or even ever. Know when to tell her some certain things

4. Give her a compliment

Why not? This very tip is like an edible to every average Igbo girl. When you’re trying to woo a woman, particularly an Igbo girl, paying her compliments will get you far. don’t flatter, because in most cases you might turn out to be disrespectful.

Just make sure you’re sincere about it. And don’t fail to monitor her reactions whenever you do so, doing so will help you dictate which compliment gives her the best chill. If your compliment is generic enough that it could be used as a pickup line for any woman, please try again and be creative.

5. Generosity

Surprised? The literal meaning of generosity might not go down well with you but yes, it’s a Key-Tip. While you expect love from an Igbo girl, you should show some tendencies of liberality towards her. Make her a priority because that alone has a lot of work to do for you.

If you are a man that expresses your likeness to a woman, ensure she sees herself in your life through others, you should show support to people around her because it will pass a message to her about your person. It doesn’t matter how little you can offer. 

6. Find ways to remind her of you

You should keep in mind that every Igbo girl loves attention and validation. If you must own her alone to yourself, then you should ensure you are always on her mind. How do you achieve this? Occupy her mind always with your expression of love. Could be through gifts, attention, Etc.

Text her before bed, make her a mixed CD for her car, or send her flowers just because. The more you pop up in her phone and in her life, the more she’ll think of you—and think about the next time she can see you.

7. Plan an epic date

Be creative while trying to woo an Igbo girl, Create some memories in her head, and show that you put some thought into it. Prove to her that she is the one you want and can do anything to make yours. For example, rather than just going to a restaurant and hoping for a table, make a reservation beforehand. It’s a small gesture that shows you put time and effort into planning a nice date.

8. Don’t just listen to her. PROVE that you listen to her

Attention is another key tip on how to woo an Igbo girl. Take being a great listener to the next step by taking action on what she’s told you. You are having a conversation with her and the only thing you do is nod and smile. She will lose interest in such a conversation and might not want to do such with you again.

The best way to avoid such ugly occurrences from taking place is by being engaging, ask her some questions in-between  If she mentioned that she loves red velvet cupcakes, bring her one the next time you see her. If she namedropped her favorite band, play their album the next time she’s in your car.

The best way to achieve this is by paying attention to details. Inquire from her about the previous conversions you both had. follow up on her priorities if she brings them to your notice. Most Times, you really don’t have to spend money to achieve this.

9. Make her laugh

A happy woman is a relaxed woman. Marilyn Monroe once famously said, “If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything.” And she wasn’t wrong. It’s a credit for a young man to possess a sense of humor, your ability to make her smile would buy her over to you before she realizes herself. But do that moderately and don’t be a clown.

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Make sure you are smart enough to know when she is in the mood to entertain jokes. It is also very important to know how best to crack her up especially when she is in a bad mood. Sometimes when she is angry about something, you can start by finding out why she isn’t happy and proffering a solution then through that means you can infuse your jokes and make the switch to a better mood.

There is a greater chance of her wanting to be with you even more than you desire because any average Igbo girl would prefer happiness to violence.

10. Make her feel special

Probably the most important thing you can do to sweep a woman off her feet is making her feel like she’s the only woman for you. Whether it’s a meaningful morning text or a surprise coffee run, finding little ways to make her feel special will make all the difference.

Wooing a woman might sound like a daunting task. But if you know the right ways (and the wrong ways) to approach her, you’ll be sweeping her off her feet in no time.

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