Have you ever walked into a room full of friendly faces, and although each person seems nice, only one face stands out from the crowd and you can’t seem to take your eyes off of this one particular person?
Most times its hard to find the why to this emotional attraction, but you can’t help but wonder how you’re going to let the object of your affection know that you’re into him or her
So what’s the best way to let someone know you like them?
Speaking to a relationship expert, a life coach, Mr. Josh who described himself as a “fast shooter”, said while it’s not for the faint hearted, inviting the person out is a direct way of making your attraction clear to them.
For him, he will compliment the person always, and afterwards initiate a physical conversation by Inviting her for a date.
“If I follow hard and there is no response, i will slow down and if there is still no response I just respect myself. But I make sure I explore all. “
A fashion illustrator , Miss Sophia Attah, said if she’s attracted to a guy and bent on letting him know, she usually gives him her undivided attention.
She explained that she will always want to keep company often with the person.
But while doing this she would usually make eye contact while he’s talking and limit interruptions. She said doing that helps her tell the guy that ‘You are my spec, and I love you,’”
A fashion designer, Mr james, said he will try to create a comfortable aura around them and then make his intention known.
” I will get close to them, let them become comfortable with me, make my intentions known, ” he said.
Miss Annabel who is an event host in Abuja said when this feeling arises, she drives home her point to the guy in question immediately.
“If its in a gathering, find the right moment to touch him. I try to reach for his arm while we are talking or brush an imaginary stain of his shirt, ” she said while giggling.
According to her, finding a subtle way to make contact gives you an opportunity to share a moment and in the process send the message that you are attracted to him.
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